With one baby, if you decide on a whim to go to the park one sunny day, you pack some stuff, feed the kid, and you arrive at the park within the hour.
With two babies and a 3 year old, if you decide on a whim to go to the park one sunny day, you pack ALOT of stuff, feed all the kids, and maybe if you are lucky you will arrive at the park by next Tuesday at noon. Oh yeah, and as soon as you get there the three year old will have to pee.
Another observation:
When you have more than one baby, you are basically a circus attraction. It's as if people have never seen two babies in the same vicinity before. They are attracted to you like magnets. When we are out in public, I spend probably 50% of my time talking to strangers. I also have to fend my babies off from strangers who want to hold them, kiss them and get in their personal space. Sometimes I feel like I should charge an admission fee just to come stare at Garrett and Rhys and ask me invasive personal questions about my fertility.
Another observation, and this is the best one:
I never ever thought that having two babies would be so fascinating. I just love to see them interact with eacthother. They are so funny. They fight already: Rhys is grabbing Garrett and poor Garrett howls like he's being tortured. Then, Garrett gets over it and rolls over and laughs at Rhys. Then they both start tugging on the same blanket and have a kerfluffle over that. It's so entertaining. I feel like the luckiest person in the world to have this experience! Of course, I so wish that I had my three babies and I wonder every day what that would be like and how they would all interact with eachother. I think about this alot and it makes me smile and feel sad at the same time.
Being a mom of multiples is tiring, fun, happy, crazy, insane, and exciting. It's downright chaotic at times (like between the hours of 6 and 9pm in our house....just nuts!) but it's such a unique experience and Mark and I are thoroughly enjoying it!

